Even though I struck a cord, it would take me the next decade, and a few more friendships lost, to understand that it’s really OK when someone you invest in decides to walk away.

There are several ways to be a “good friend” and a crap load of ways to be a “bad” one. I know you can all relate! I have seen friendships end over stupid arguments, miscommunication and Facebook.

When I met them, I had no idea how much I would need them. I am so grateful for these women and their families. Sometimes, I don’t believe that my daughters and I would have survived the hardest moments without them.

We can all impact each other, choose how we connect. Why not choose kindness?